Paani Mein Rehkar Magar Se Bair: Picking a Fight You Cannot Win
Launch library · evergreen read
पानी में रहकर मगर से बैर (paani mein rehkar magar se bair) means living in the water while feuding with the crocodile, a caution against provoking conflict with someone who holds a clear advantage in your own shared territory. The saying is used to advise caution and diplomacy.
Particularly when a disagreement involves someone whose position, resources or influence gives them a natural edge over you within the very space you both occupy. Learners can use this idiom in conversations about strategy and caution. It is a memorable, image rich way to suggest that some conflicts are better avoided than pursued, however justified they might feel.
A useful related expression is jahan rehna wahan se dushmani nahi, do not make enemies where you live, a more direct phrase covering similar practical advice without the proverb's vivid crocodile imagery. Elders often offer it as calm, practical advice to a younger relative caught in a workplace disagreement with someone clearly holding the stronger position.